Whole Family Psychotherapy

Therapy for children & teens

Virtual therapy sessions for children and teens 2 to 17 years old who are in need of some external guidance and support to cope with life’s ups and downs.

“I just don’t know what my child needs or how to help them right now!”

You are not alone – so many parents find themselves out of their depth at one point or another, and are looking for guidance and external help to get their child into a better place.  Often you can tell that something is off, but perhaps they can’t or won’t express what exactly is going on for them.  Some parents feel really overwhelmed with behavioural challenges and aren’t sure how to best work through this.  Sometimes teens especially just won’t open up to their parents, and we know how hard that can feel.

Childhood and the teenage years are beautiful, messy, chaotic and complex developmental stages, and so many parents are looking for tools and support to help them parent their kids through the ups and downs. 

You don’t have to figure this out on your own;
we can help with child & teen therapy.

Child & Family Counselling In Waterloo, Kitchener & Virtually Across Ontario

The 16 Most Common Things We Hear From Parents Seeking Therapy For Their Child

Anxiety is a normal response to perceived threat, however some children can become more sensitive over time and start to worry excessively to a point where it impacts their day to day quality of life and prevents them from engaging in their lives in certain ways.
I worry that my child doesn’t have very good social skills, or that their quiet/shy nature is preventing them from feeling part of their community of peers.
I notice that my child is really hard on themself – and worry that they have low self-esteem.  I don’t know what to do.
We lost a loved one in our family, and I want to make sure that my child is ok – they don’t seem to want to talk about it, and I’m not sure how much they understand. 
My child witnessed a traumatic incident (car accident, a medical event, an abusive altercation etc.) and I’m worried that they will be traumatized.
My child isn’t acting like themself – they aren’t participating in things they used to like, they have withdrawn from us and never want to share anything about what is going on.  

I suspect or know that my teen is experimenting with drugs/alcohol and is putting themselves in risky situations, help! They won’t talk to me, they don’t respect our rules and boundaries and I’m at a loss for what to do or how to help turn this around.

My child seems to always have physical complaints, primarily tummy trouble, and we can’t find a medical reason. These complaints seem to come up before certain activities or times and I’m worried this might be something else.
My child struggles to go to sleep at night, and or frequently wakes at night, resulting in a chronically overtired kid, and I just don’t understand why nothing seems to help.
All of a sudden, my child, who had a skill, seems to have lost it- e.g. my child was potty trained, and is now having accidents or bedwetting incidents – or my child who could dress independently is now very clingy and refuses to do things independently.
It is a battle to get my child to school every day and their grades have started to slide all of a sudden – I’m not sure what is going on.
I can tell that my child is working through some things, they are questioning parts of their identity and refuse to talk to me about it, or share very little. They aren’t themselves, and I think they need someone else to talk to.
I’m just at a loss – my child’s behaviour can be so challenging, they don’t listen and nothing we do seems to work to improve it.
Things have been really stressful, my co-parent and I are separating/divorcing and it’s been really hard on our child. I want to make sure they have a safe space to talk about it.
School/daycare have raised concerns about my child (their behaviour, their wellbeing, their development) and I want to make sure they are assessed for their mental health to make sure we aren’t missing something.
It feels like my child is always getting into conflict – like they’re always trying to pick a fight. Things are so tense in our house; I feel like I’m walking on eggshells.
My child goes from 0-100 so quickly and I’m not sure how to support them. I never seem to get it right; it’s really triggering for me and hard to see them struggle, even with things that don’t seem like a big deal.

Child & Family Counselling In Waterloo, Kitchener & Virtually Across Ontario

We can support your child with:

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Anxiety/Depression

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Trauma & PTSD

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Family Conflict

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ADHD

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Grief & Loss

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Self-esteem & Body Image

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Emotion Regulation

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Academic Stress

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Identity Exploration

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Behavioural Challenges

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Social Challenges

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Adjustment to Life Changes

About Us

Why Whole Family Psychotherapy?

We believe that our children are resilient, and that with the right support and guidance, they can tap into some really incredible potential for growth.

There are so many difficult parts of growing up, and developmental stages that many children and teenagers find painful or uncomfortable.  Relationships can be overwhelming and complicated, and our little people and even teens often don’t have the emotional maturity and skills required to navigate these complex systems.  Children pick up on stress within their family systems, and often their discomfort comes out in behavioural challenges or mood and anxiety symptoms.  

At Whole Family Psychotherapy, we begin by building a solid, trusting relationship with your child to help them feel safe.  We then support your child to get in touch with their inner world, understand their emotions, and build skills to communicate their needs and feelings, and manage the ups and downs that are a part of growing up. When your child works with our team, they will have access to an experienced child/teen therapist with the specific skills and training required to help your kiddo make progress.

Our children and teens are little sponges; it is truly remarkable how quickly they can learn new skills and work through difficulties with the right assistance.  

We help your child feel whole.

Christina Page

Founder & Clinical Director
Perinatal Therapist

Therapists Offering Child & Family Therapy

Our counselling team provides in-person child therapy in Waterloo and virtual child & family therapy across Ontario. Browse our team profiles below to find the right therapist near you.

FAQs

Frequently Asked Questions about Child Therapy

Gone are the days when virtual therapy was seen as inferior to in-person therapy – extensive research conducted on virtual therapy throughout the pandemic showed us how valid an approach this is. Over the past several years, virtual therapy clients have also shared their positive experiences with us; particularly the impact of having therapy be so much more flexible and accessible when our time is so valuable and hard to come by.

Benefits of virtual therapy:

  • Allows you to be in your environment, where you are most comfortable.
  • Removes the need for child care – babies and young children can be cared for or sleeping at home while a parent receives the support they need.
  • Removes the travel time, making appointments easier to schedule for busy parents.
    Allows couples/family members to join a session from multiple locations.

 

If you feel deeply drawn to in-person therapy, we see you – and we do offer limited in person services in Waterloo and Markham Ontario for those who aren’t open to trying virtual – but we always encourage folks to at least TRY working virtually – you might be surprised at how much you enjoy it!

While each child is different, it can be helpful to consider that your child will likely be getting in touch with big feelings, and while this is done in a safe and very gentle manner, therapy can stir things up, and your child may feel worse, before starting to feel better. This is ok, and totally normal! It takes time to build a relationship between any client and therapist, and so patience at the start especially will go a long way.

This is a great question, and unfortunately one that doesn’t have a straightforward answer. We are bound by specific legislation around confidentiality when it comes to children and youth accessing our services. There is no set age at which a child is deemed capable of deciding who they want involved in their therapy and whether information is shared with parents/guardians; this is determined by the therapist who will assess your child’s capacity in an initial consultation.

If your child is deemed capable by the therapist, they would have the right to confidentiality, and their therapist could only share information with you if your child expressly consented to this (unless there are specific concerns regarding safety). If your child is deemed incapable, you as their parent/guardian would need to consent to them receiving therapy, and you would be involved with and informed of their progress.

Our goal is to work with your child and your family to support connection, while respecting your child’s need for independence depending on their age and developmental stage. We will customize a plan that fits your family. Sometimes that means that parents have weekly direct involvement in therapy and sometimes that means that your child will give you updates. Sometimes this also means that with your child’s consent we will ask about having family therapy sessions. These decisions are made together with you and your child as we are in process. We are happy to discuss what meets your needs.

Children are all so different, and will likely want and need different things from their parents while in therapy.  Depending on your child’s age and developmental stage, simply asking them this question, and being open to the answer is a great place to start.  Letting your child know they can always come to you to share how they are feeling is helpful, and if you can carve out some quiet time with them at bedtime, this is often a time when a child is more open to talking.  If they are reluctant to share, respecting this boundary is also important. With teens especially, it’s often best to say a lot less than you want, and avoid directly asking questions about therapy – waiting for your teen to come to you is hard, but necessary.

Our session fee ranges from $165-$185 per hour based on the experience of the therapist you are seeing. All of our therapists have Master’s level education in either Social Work, Psychotherapy or Counselling. The session fee will be discussed with you during your free consult, and you can also see each therapist’s session fee outlined in our online booking portal under “our team”.

We sometimes have reduced-rate counselling available with an MSW intern. The reduced rate is $100/hr and is subject to availability.

We require you to add a valid credit card to your client profile prior to your first paid session, so we don’t eat up your time with this during your initial session. Upon completion of each session, we will charge the card on file and email you a receipt.

For younger children who struggle to engage in an hour-long session, we offer 45 minute sessions as well at a reduced rate.

The range for treatment duration really varies based on each child’s unique set of circumstances and challenges. Research suggests that the majority of individuals will remain in therapy for approximately 12-20 sessions to achieve their goals, but this can really vary from child to child. Some may need fewer sessions, especially if the therapy is for a specific shorter-term problem, while others may need more sessions if they have complex and ongoing challenges or are looking for an ongoing supportive relationship with their therapist where they can regularly talk about the stressors in their life.
Your child’s therapist will make a recommendation around the frequency of sessions based on the specific circumstances and challenges your child is facing. Of course ultimately it is up to you and your child, and we always take into consideration your access to resources, benefits and time constraints to make therapy work for you. Generally, to build momentum and support your child in starting to feel better sooner, therapists will typically recommend weekly or bi-weekly sessions, and as you see improvement, you can stretch out the time between sessions. Monthly sessions are more “maintenance” oriented, and then from there can taper off as your child maintains a sense of stability and wellbeing between sessions.

As your child progresses in therapy, you may notice that they:

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Therapy For Children & Families

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